The stress women go through these days to keep a men committed to relationships is really alarming. AIn a relationship, many women think that what a man wants is purely physical satisfaction, majorly sex. Women make sure to give quality sex in their relationship and also suppose that the reason for a man’s derailment is attributed to sex, the wrong method and the wrong force are used, but they forget that men actually have deeper emotional needs, which are:
* Word Affirmation : Men are babies and will remain babies. I once experienced seeing my elder brother sick after he got married. I was surprised to see him folded up like a baby under the blanket. He sought attention throughout the time he was sick like a baby. Since then I have concluded that men will always be babies no matter what age a man is, he is a child who has not grown up at heart. No matter how tough his appearance is, he longs to be praised and affirmed in his heart. If you want a man to listen to you obediently and pay for you, you should be sweeter and give him more appreciation and praise. A woman, as long as she can grasp a man’s self-esteem and make him feel that he is valuable, has a sense of existence, and is emotionally satisfied with you, he will naturally become more and more inseparable from you.
* Your concern: Showing concern and making yourself available to care for him when he is in his lowest is highly important for men. The fragility of a man will always be buried in the deepest part of his heart, but no matter how strong a man is, there will be times when he is sad and vulnerable and needs to be cared for. Women, you must know how to observe words and expressions, and learn to distinguish the truest state of your other half’s heart. Especially when he is in a low mood and falls into a trough, the care and concern in your eyes is the best comfort for him. Even if you can’t help him solve practical problems, at least he won’t be so alone with two people. There is no need to ask too much, just silent company, a look, a hug, can let him remove the disguise, relieve the pressure, and be the most authentic self. And this kind of concern is what a man’s soul seeks and desires.
* Your understanding: In a count of one to ten men, all ten have experienced love and sex but understanding would have being experienced by only two out of the ten men. In fact, no matter a man or a woman, what he desires most in his heart is to have someone who understands himself. What a man wants is someone who can resonate with him, respect him, and support him, not a nanny who only takes care of his daily life. If you can not understand his choice and respect his development, then no matter how much you pay, in the end, he may still leave you and go to someone else. In a relationship, the most important thing is the tacit understanding between two people, as well as the communication of hearts. In the face of wind and rain, being able to help each other, support each other, and give each other tolerance and compassion will make men love you more and cherish you. Whether a relationship can go on for a long time is not only a test of love, but also the wisdom of getting along.